What Is Tantric Massage?
Tantra massage is given from the heart. In a tantric massage, the whole body takes part and erotic zones can likewise be touched. A tantra massage takes place on the basis of equality and establishes an intimate connection between massage giver and receiver.
Tantric Massage is all about Loving touch
A tantric massage is a caring touch complete of attention and presence. Tantra massage is given from the heart. A lot of touch will take location through the hands (or body to body) it is actually love that touches. The hands of the giver are gotten in touch with his/her heart. The touch is loving, always focused on the wellness of the receiver. The recipient is likewise present, and gets active as well as feels (ultimately) from the heart. Be loving!
Filled with attention and presence during tantric massage
A tantra massage is a caring touch full of attention and existence. Don't look around or being busy with something else, no, your complete attention is on offering or getting the massage. Tantra massage is not about regular, set patterns are actually out of the concern.
A tantric massage isn't really about an established outcome
A tantric massage will always be different. You never know how it will end up. It is not the strategy or the desired sequence of massaging that is necessary, it has to do with what is appropriate/necessary. What/where does the recipient most need at the moment? What is great for her/him? Love understands what to do, love constantly has an appropriate response. And so the massage will be exactly that what is required. Sufficient is that the provider exists and keeps tuning in to his/her heart, to the frequencies of love. The divine likewise has its own strategy, you cannot "do" it.
Tantric massages therefore often take an extremely unexpected course. A tantric massage does not constantly have to be "great", ending in bliss.
Ways to get the finest from your tantric massage
Always with regard to limitations
We knew it for a long period of time, obviously, however considering that the #MeToo discoveries, some things have turned up worldwide of tantra massage. Masseurs (you do not hear that much about masseuses) who force their own sexual pleasure/lust on "customers". Of course, this has little to do with tantric massage. The safety of both giver and receiver constantly must be guaranteed. Loving attunement always comes initially.
Set clear borders beforehand
Every individual (other than when you are enlightened) has his limits. This is human and is also necessary (check out the post on securing limits. Believe in advance (both as giver and receiver) what your limits are. Make certain there is a correct intake, and a decent preparation (likewise with your lover/massage partner). Set clear limits in advance: about psychological limits, as well as take care for clearness about physical boundaries. It is a misconception that a tantric massage must always be naked, rubbish. With clothes on is likewise entirely okay (however hard to work with oil then). It is likewise a misunderstanding that a tantric massage need to be concentrated on the sexual parts of the body (breasts/sex), rubbish too. Personally, we have actually given/received lots of tantric massages just on the head. Likewise, in addition, in fact each cell is sensual, but you will be astonished.
Tantric massage is an energetic massage
Activate and let circulation easily
Activating and freeing the circulation of life energy (prana) is the primary part of tantra massage. In a tantric massage, the whole body participates and erotic zones can also be touched. In tantra massage we play with the activation of basic/ sexual/ psychological/ enthusiastic/ love/ production/ user-friendly energy.
Focused on the natural overjoyed state of being
There is a conversation going on whether tantra massage is part of "real" tantra. Well ... Tantra is an extremely practical, body-oriented movement, a vision of life intended at growing in love and awareness. As far as we are worried, tantra massage is one of them.
Normally resulting in a terrific physical, mental well-being
This is also the case with a tantra massage. A tantra massage is typically nice, often tasty. We, for that reason, welcome you to fully take pleasure in receiving ánd giving a tantric massage.
What Tantric massage isn't really?
There are lots of kinds of massage. Of course, all massages have certain practices and strategies in typical. There is a big distinction with e.g.:
* Relaxation massage (intended at relaxation).
* Sports massage (focused on the muscles).
* Erotic massage (targeted at pleasure complete satisfaction).
* (Body) treatment (focused on recovery).
Well because you are really very energetic during/after the massage. A tantra massage is NOT a sensual massage either. It's a kind of fashion these days to see tantra massage as a treatment, however therapy is a profession apart.
The fundamentals of tantric massage.
For a comprehensive explanation, see the article on the fundamentals of tantric massage. In summary, the following basics stand out:
Tantra massage suggestions-- before you begin
* Develop a warm, confutable tantric massage area (this can be done easily on both an infall massage or an outcall massage).
* Provide great conditions (physically, however likewise mentally).
* Make clear contracts!
* start by getting naked together.
Tantric massage ideas-- during the massage.
* Start, stay, end connected to each other.
* Always keep your attention on the massage.
* Make certain your massage is demand totally free, don't push or require anything.
* Open your very own heart, and open the heart of the receiver.
* Trigger (sexual) energy and disperse it throughout the entire body.
* Do not only utilize your hands. Discover the body to body massage.
* Occasionally ... not do anything at all! Be 1000% present. Take pleasure in!
* Utilize your senses.
* Provide feedback (enjoyment noises?).
* Construct in integration (rest) minutes.
Some masseurs are more/mainly interested in what they themselves find pleasant, enjoyable, preferable. Though a tantra massage is not a work task, so as a provider you can likewise enjoy yourself, still the core is that you are there for the recipient. So forget your own "needs", stay away from your very own concerns and above all ... do not attempt to require anything. Nothing needs to be done, nothing is required! Once again, do not attempt to impose anything (your very own goal/body/needs/ sexuality) on the receiver! Tune in to exactly what the recipient needs. It is as it is, and it goes as it goes. Trust in love. Maybe you are dissatisfied when someone falls asleep. You might not be waiting on an emotional cry, however a tantric massage has no objective. No intended outcome. It is exactly what it is. Accept that.
Tantra massage tips-- after the massage.
* Take adequate time to process, to let the massage settle.
* Take time to exchange your experiences.
* Understand that a tantric massage can have an impact for days. Be careful/alert.
* Do not right away go "full-on". Take your time and rest after the massage.
10 essential tantra massage tips (insights/rules).
* Do not work towards an objective. We get asked all the time, it this a happy ending massage? Yes it can be, it generally is but there is no pressure for you to carry out, this is about letting that energy circulation.
* Respect limits, set clear boundaries in advance. Our masseuses are primarily very open minded - they are naturally due to the fact that of the nature of their work but they are masseuses - not escorts.
* Keep the dreams of the recipient in mind, of course. Understand that it can turn out in a different way.
* It is always an energetic massage. Start with a fantastic read the heart.
* Activate sexual energy. Stimulate the entire body. Being excited is typical and preferable.
* Self-love and awareness (at the recipient) are crucial! A lot can come up.
* Be alert to restored freezing moments. Prevent limitations from being crossed once again.
* Step by step ending up being freer ... Growing trust ... fine. However beware: no sex! Practice makes perfect. Delighting in the restored balance and connection between sex and heart.
* Provide feedback (e.g. satisfaction noises) and provide integration moments (just not doing anything).
* Tantra massage is more than sexual fulfillment, still: can Yoni or Lingam massage happen?
Do not release, but recharge.
This is how you experience heart orgasm and body orgasm.
By this we suggest don't rush towards the climatic ending, hold it, be in the moment, let that sexual energy build and flood your whole body.
Possible effects of tantric massage.
Provides peace and relaxation.
Tantric massage is a massage that gets you out of your head. During/after the massage it becomes quiet in your head (in some cases entirely empty).
Brings your life energy into movement.
Tantrix massage brings you the experience of wonderfully flowing life energy. The tantric touch is healthy, massage has a prospective healing effect. Even though tantra massage is not the very same as healing, this release might heal some blockades.
Makes you soft and loving.
Tantra massage opens your body and your heart. You end up being more caring, you learn what it resembles to like yourself. You experience that everything, including your sexuality, can be there, without judgment. And that offers a wonderfully liberating and deeply satisfied feeling.
You will feel comfy in your body. The mix of relaxation and a lot of energy indicates that you can enjoy yourself, your body, your energies.
Simply put, tantric massage is ...
* A caring touch.
* Filled with attention and existence.
* The whole body gets involved.
* Energetic massage, including sexual energy.
* Without basic type, without predefined outcome.
* With regard to (mutual) boundaries.
* Develops a (heart) connection between the provider and receiver.
* Focused on the natural, ecstatic state of being of the recipient.
* Normally resulting in a fantastic physical, psychological well-being (of both).